Who Am I & Why Should You Trust Me?
Who is Black Bull London, and why should I trust him to help me with my fantasy?
I’m a professional relationship counsellor (Cuckold and non Cuckold) by day, and a BBC bull and experienced swinger by night.
Uniquely positioned to see things from both sides of the fence, after spending many years talking to guys in a professional capacity, and socially on the scene.
Guys just like you, who wanted to share their cuckold/hotwife fantasies with their partners, but we’re struggling to do so.
I’m writing this, because I realise it's important to know more about who someone is before you just up and enlist their help with something as big as this.
I figured I'd make this page to help you know a bit more about me.
Therefore, in the interest of being as transparent as I can be (without revealing too much about my personal life), I'm not going to hold back when it comes to telling you about my past, my endeavours and accomplishments, and all the things you'd want to know about how and why I can help.
So here we go...
The Early Days
Whether it was "winning" writing assignments at school where we had to convince the teacher who she should give a £1 note to, getting goody-goody kids involved in harmless shenanigans and school pranks, or setting a record for the amount of people who I got to sponsor me for our primary school read-a-thon, ever since I was a young boy I always had a knack for being persuasive.
The older I got, the more I became aware of my "natural talents", and I started using them a bit more for my own self-interests.
And although I wouldn't really try and defend the ethics of doing some of the things I did while I was a teen, I can genuinely tell you everyone involved always had fun and I never used my "talents" for evil or malevolent intent.
Eventually though, my focus wound up turning more towards doing good for others by using my abilities for them instead of just for me.
That's also when I started trying to understand the mechanics of what I was doing naturally so I could become even more effective at being persuasive and influential because I knew on some level that natural talent alone wouldn't be enough to help me effect the world in the ways I wanted to.
Pursuing A Dual Education
So in addition to pursuing an undergraduate degree in Psychology and a graduate degree in Counselling (with a specialty in Marital & Family Therapy), I gave myself an education in persuasion and influence by reading just about every relevant book I could get my hands on.
Being the obsessive type that I am, I looked to attend workshops and seminars on these topics as well.
Looking back on it now, I realised what I was doing was essentially learning to look at one specific topic (which was effecting change in the people and world around me) from as many different perspectives as I could.
Attending seminars in alternative subjects like Covert Conversational Hypnosis and Neuro-linguistic Programming or educational workshops on working with suicidal clients, or clients with addiction, etc, helped me learn all sorts of different methods, techniques, and approaches to working with people.
And the more sides I saw, the richer my understanding became.
This of course helped me hone my skills because I was able to integrate new techniques, approaches, and methods into what I was already doing.
Making A Difference In The World
Suffice it to say, all this helped me tremendously in working with people of all ages in all different kinds of situations.
Whether it was helping depressed clients navigate their way out of the black heaviness they felt, or working through the seemingly impenetrable delusions and paranoia of those afflicted with schizophrenia, or helping alcoholics and drug addicts overcome their addictions and put their lives back together, or providing marital counseling to couples helping them navigate some pretty rough and crazy relationship situations, I was exposed to a lot, and therefore I learned a lot.
Along the way, I was even directly responsible for helping to create a program that changed the core organisational and relational structure of a residential treatment facility that provided care for clients in need of mental health counseling services.
If you think trying to convince someone who loves you to fulfill one of your deepest desires is hard, you should try convincing rich, old men to change the way their company works.
My Private life
In my early 20’s I took a delve into the swinging scene.
Mostly for research purposes, but also because i was curious, after hearing so many clients talk about it.
I found that I really enjoyed the scene, and as time went by, I became more and more immersed in it, as I am still to this day.
During this time, and after hundreds of conversations, I discovered something important.
I discovered that all these regular guys who were actually successful in getting their fantasies to happen faced a tremendous amount of resistance from their wives in the beginning.
For some guys, their wife’s resistance lasted weeks.
For others, it lasted years.
No matter how long it lasted though, almost every wife of every cuckold and hotwife husband out there initially wasn't open to the fantasy.
This was such an important discovery because it meant that at one point, all these guys faced the same resistance; it meant that if a wife wasn't open to the idea, this was par for the course and a potential cuck shouldn't just give up.
And I also learnt that there are indeed wrong things you can say and do, and right things you can say in this situation.
So it occurred to me that unless a man learns what the right and wrong things are for him to do, it will be impossible for him to make his fantasy happen.
This is where things get really interesting...
A Unique Opportunity
At the time, I just so happened to be lucky enough to have been attending interviews of world famous psychologists for an elite expert interview series (on a variety of topics).
And that’s when I had an idea.
Sitting right in front of me was the opportunity to ask world leading Psychology experts in persuasion, decision making, and sex (and other unrelated fields as well) whatever I wanted.
Now to be perfectly clear, I did not ask these professionals how a man could convince his significant other to sleep with another man.
Rather, I asked them specific questions about persuasion, sexual fantasies, and alternative relationship arrangements immediately after the interviews.
And that’s how I learned about a few life-changing psychology, relationship, and influence principles that could be applied by a husband, to get a wife willingly on board with the idea of having sex with other men.
Teaching Others What I Learned
Anyway, it didn't occur to me just how groundbreaking all of this was until I started sharing what I had learned with guys on the scene and online, who were struggling.
I started giving them advice and tips based on what I had learn’t, and the guys who actually followed the advice I gave them started having success.
It was then that I realised I was onto something here.
That’s when I started exploring ways I could take all this and try to “formalise” what I was doing.
So I created a rudimentary system of sorts, one based on research proven Psychology laws and principles straight from the mouths of the experts, countless hours of retro-analysis, success step retracing, refinement of what was working when I was helping others I used this "system" to help guide/structure the advice I would give to others.
I started to see that although there are important overarching principles that apply to almost all situations, (which is why my generic plans and guides work so well) each and every relationship situation is unique and would also call for doing more/less of the same/different things. (That's why the most valuable service I offer, is that of creating my signature Personalised Wife Converter Plan).
Where else can you get a "manual" of sorts written just for you, and your own unique situation?
Over time, my knowledge on the subject increased and grew and has become what it is today.
I do this professionally and full-time for a living, and not solely online.
And at times, even though that still seems so surreal to me, this is my life, and I'm extremely grateful for it.
Taking The Advice Of A Stranger On The Internet
Hopefully all that has helped you to get to know me a bit better.
As for the second part of the question at the top of this page (why should you trust that I can help you make your fantasy happen), here's what I'll say.
I'm sure you're well aware that anyone can pretty much say anything on the internet.
That's why I'm not going to try to "convince" you why I'm qualified to help.
Instead, I'll just tell you a bit about my results (which are all publicly verifiable):
Up until recently, just before it became X, I had nearly 60,000 followers on Twitter, and I worked with as many clients as possible each and every month.
I'm sure you can imagine that I can only take on so many new clients each month though, for one on one help.
This is where my PDF’s come in.
They are more than good enough, and can adequately suffice for most peoples situations.
But every so often, someone will need one to one attention and a more tailored and unique plan, because of extenuating circumstances.
The testimonials I display are 100% real.
Click the red review button on the side of the screen, to see what clients have said about my 4 step plan, my introduction guide, and my personalised plans.
Finally, I treat all potential clients as I'd want to be treated.
Unless they request otherwise. Haha.
All my products and services are backed by my no hassle, risk free, 60 day money back (double your money back in some cases) guarantees.
That’s because I know they work. And work very well.
At the end of the day, I'd never want to ask you to do something or trust me with this if you were uncomfortable about any of it.
But...if you're someone who wants to make his cuckold or hotwife fantasy happen in reality, you'll come to find that trusting me and enlisting my services is the best thing you'll ever wind up doing.
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